Brave Face
Emotional Control
A hero is no braver than an ordinary man, but he is brave five minutes longer.
Brave Face
Have you ever thought about what it means to put on a brave face?
This phrase, so commonly used, holds a depth of meaning that we often overlook. At its core, putting on a brave face means presenting strength and confidence to the world, even when you’re feeling anything but strong inside.
It's like the tip of an iceberg, solid and majestic above the water, while beneath lies a hidden expanse of emotions and struggles.
Why do we do it? Why do we feel the need to hide our true feelings and present a facade of resilience?
The importance of putting on a brave face is deeply intertwined with our roles and responsibilities. When we show strength, we instill confidence in those around us.
Imagine a family in turmoil; the children look up to their parents, seeking reassurance. A parent who maintains a calm and collected demeanor can provide a sense of security, even when they are battling their own inner storms.
Putting on a brave face is not just for others; it’s also for ourselves. It acts as a shield against the overwhelming negativity that life can throw at us. By projecting confidence, we reinforce our own belief in our ability to handle adversity.
This mental fortitude helps us navigate through difficult times with a clearer mind, making rational decisions instead of succumbing to panic.
There is a subtle power in setting a positive example through this practice. When you demonstrate resilience, you become a role model. Think about how children learn from observing the adults around them.
They see how you handle stress and challenges, and they learn to do the same. It’s a valuable lesson in perseverance and strength, one that they carry with them throughout their lives.
However, there’s a fine line between putting on a brave face and ignoring your emotions. Constantly masking your true feelings can lead to emotional burnout. It’s crucial to strike a balance between showing strength and being authentic. Recognize your emotions and allow yourself to process them.
This can be through journaling, meditating, or simply talking to someone you trust. Seeking support is not a sign of weakness; it’s a step towards maintaining your well-being.
Authenticity is key. While it’s important to be strong for those around you, there are moments when sharing your vulnerabilities can deepen your connections with others.
It shows that you’re human, and it’s okay to struggle. This honesty can foster a sense of community and mutual support, which is essential in times of difficulty.
Putting on a brave face is about finding the balance between strength and vulnerability. It’s about standing tall in the face of adversity while also being true to yourself.
This practice not only helps you navigate life’s challenges but also sets a powerful example for those around you. Embrace it as a tool for personal growth and resilience, knowing that it’s okay to be both strong and vulnerable.
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Bro. This is right on time. Dealing with that very issue on several fronts.
I'm five and a half decades into this thing and still tryna figure out how to be that resilient man I needed growing up. It's really hard to model behaviour that was never part of your normal as a kid. Like, my whole family life was emotional upset and various forms of violence. And wouldn't you know it, that's some of what I've passed along to my sons. And knowing that is hard; owning that is necessary. It's never too late to work on being a better human being. I mean, I might be a shitbag, but I'm like 20 per cent less shit bag today than I was two years ago. So that counts 😂
Seriously, tho, I appreciate the timing of your message--even if that scheduling is above our pay grade--and the message itself. Thank you for what ya do.
'It shows that you’re human, and it’s okay to struggle.'
Yeah, agreed. Putting on an inauthentic facade is definitely counterproductive and can very well backfire.