Naps Over Grudges
Change my mind.
When you are offended at any man's fault, turn to yourself and study your own failings. Then you will forget your anger.
Naps > Grudges
Life is hard, right? Wouldn’t it be nice if we could simply omit a few things that are considered mainstays or requirements?
I submit grudges for omission. Grudges feel simple and pointless.
You see, I've realized that I just don't have the time, mental or emotional capacity to hold grudges. The very idea of harboring resentment against someone feels like a waste of energy and it could potentially ruin precious moments. So screw that, I don’t care to keep them.
Grudges, in my view, serve no positive purpose. They consume time and energy without offering any benefit. They deplete our emotional bandwidth, and frankly, I'd rather use that energy for something constructive and nurturing in our relationships.
Hell, maybe just for a nap now and then. A grudge will keep my mind going. My mind working will keep me up. That short nap? Gone. Grudges aren’t worth it.
If there's a reason big enough to consider holding a grudge against someone, it's probably serious enough to reconsider the entire relationship. If a grudge becomes central to our interactions, it means something fundamental is amiss. Maybe the relationship wasn't what we thought it was, or perhaps it's rooted in desires for drama or attention.
But here's the thing – if there's a genuine issue, I'm always open to addressing it. Resolving conflicts is part of caring for and valuing a relationship. However, stewing in a grudge, maintaining an attitude of "screw that person" is not something I believe in. If you don't want to deal with an issue, why should I waste my time holding onto negative feelings?
If you ever find yourself upset with someone, consider whether it's a grudge you're holding or if you're seeking attention or acting out. Holding onto anger and resentment is like carrying a heavy burden that only weighs you down. It's far healthier to let go of these negative feelings or to confront the issue head-on and resolve it.
Remember, life is too short and too precious to waste on grudges. We have the power to choose how we spend our emotional energy. Let's invest it in building and maintaining healthy, positive relationships. Let it go or resolve it – whatever is needed. But holding onto grudges is not the way to go.
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