Be Unyielding: Protect What's Yours In A World Of Takers
Much has been written on this. The songs and the stories are my favorite.
Shallow men believe in luck. Strong men believe in cause and effect.
Fortify Yourself
Do not let people take from you. This mantra has the ability to guide us through the labyrinth of challenges we face daily. It’s not even long, so repetition should be simple. Be careful when attempting it in Latin, though. I’m still not convinced demons aren’t real and we shouldn’t be taking any chances there. Try something like “furtum non toleratur” which I am told means roughly “Theft is not tolerated”.
It’s easy to fall into the trap of believing it’s okay to let things go, to be the bigger person. While generosity and forgiveness are virtues, there's a fine line between altruism and exploitation. The world, unfortunately, is riddled with those who mistake kindness for weakness, seeing an opportunity for gain in every act of concession.
The key to safeguarding what's yours lies in setting firm boundaries. A boundary is like a fortress; it doesn’t just protect you, it also sends a clear message to potential intruders. It tells them that you are not a soft target, that you value yourself and what belongs to you, and that any attempt to breach your walls will not be taken lightly.
This is not an encouragement for violence or hostility but a call to be vigilant and resilient. The reality is, whether it's a bully, a thief, or any entity with ill intent, they are deterred by strength, be it physical, emotional, or moral. Strength is not just about physical might; it's about the courage to stand up for yourself and for what is rightfully yours.
A weak person, one who shirks responsibilities and fails to stand up for themselves, becomes not only a target for exploitation but also a liability to those around them. Strength, therefore, isn't a personal indulgence; it's a societal responsibility. When you are strong, you don't just protect yourself; you create a safer environment for everyone around you.
This concept extends beyond personal interactions to larger societal and governmental structures. Remember, your rights as an individual are inalienable, not granted by governments or institutions, but inherent to your very existence as a human being. When these rights are compromised, it's not just an individual loss but a collective one.
Hence why personal strength is necessary for yourself and society. Become a hard target. You must present yourself as strong and unyielding. Be genuinely prepared to defend what’s yours and avoid posturing or pretense. Work to understand the motives of those around you, from neighbors to governments, and recognize when your rights are being encroached upon.
In a democratic system, the majority doesn’t always know best, especially when it comes to understanding the diverse needs of a varied population. This is why the constitutional republic we have, with its checks and balances, is crucial. It ensures that no single group can impose its will on the rest, maintaining a balance of power.
As individuals, it's our duty to stand up against any form of encroachment on our rights and freedoms. This might mean speaking out against injustices, voting with conscientiousness, or simply educating ourselves and others about our inherent rights and liberties.
This is part of becoming a hard target. When one is surrounded by other hard targets, they all become more secure. Remember, becoming a hard target is not about aggression or hostility. It's about self-respect, awareness, and the determination to protect not only what's yours but also what's right. In a world full of takers, be the one who stands firm, who respects themselves enough to say, "This is mine, and you cannot take it from me."
Remember, when you stand strong, you don't just protect yourself; you light a beacon for others to follow.
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Great post! A world full of overly apologetic men is a lost world.
You have to guard what's yours from people who take advantage and be tough but not mean. A great reminder.